Think I’m crazy? Hang in there for a minute, and I’ll explain my reasoning.
If you are over 43, contraceptives were actually ILLEGAL, for EVERYONE, single OR married, in the United States, during your lifetime, and had been before then. Then, in 2 separate rulings, the Supreme Court, in its infinite wisdom, struck down all laws against contraceptives. The first ruling, in 1965, Griswold v. Connecticut, held that laws against contraceptive use by married couples violated “marital privacy” and therefore were unconstitutional. In 1972, in Eisenstadt v. Baird, they ruled that, since married people had a Constitutional right to use contraceptives, it was a violation of the Constitutional “equal protection” clause to prohibit their use by UNmarried people.
Just think of how things were before 1965 for American girls who’d hit puberty, and American women. They could refuse sex with their boyfriend or husband, on the grounds that “I don’t want to get pregnant”. The more religiously minded or otherwise morally conservative among them could also refuse on the grounds that it was also against their morals. Women and girls could demand to NOT be treated as living sex toys, on those grounds, and “good girls” (the ones who said no and made it STICK) were highly sought-after as marriage partners by the more responsible, emotionally mature, self-controlled and successful men.
With the Supreme Court rulings, contraceptive use and development proliferated, and hit its apex in the “birth control pill”, which approached 99% in effectiveness, better than any other birth control method except the word “no” (which is 100% effective, when heeded). Suddenly, womankind could avoid pregnancy altogether, for the first time in human history, just by taking pills every day. Women who were morally conservative or religious were then suddenly much less popular, as the women who had abstained from sex solely to avoid pregnancy took advantage of their “sexual liberation” and began going to bed with boys and men that weren’t their husbands, or even fiance’s. Times changed even more, and a woman’s morality could be turned against her. “If you won’t have sex with me, it’s OVER between us, I’ll find a girl who WILL”. If a woman didn’t WANT to take the pill, OR to have a baby out of wedlock, there were few boys or men who were interested in her. Television , popular novels, and the movies made sexual promiscuity by both sexes seem fun, exciting and beautiful, and if a gal didn’t go along with that, she was ostracized by the men. So, the pill, which started out as the great liberator of woman, became her oppressor, forcing upon her a sexual “liberation” that was actually a “liberation” for the MEN, freeing them from having to be grown up in their relationships with women, allowing them to be permanently teenage, thinking from their crotches, choosing wives and girlfriends based on their “sexiness”, and on their performance in bed, and on little else. Adultery is now a commonplace, sexually-transmitted diseases sterilize and kill and cause permanent pain and suffering. Pornography is universally accessible, and further indoctrinates men that women WANT to be treated like sex toys, and the birth control pill provides men with the opportunity to live out their pornographic fantasies without the inconvenience of fathering a baby and ruining his lover’s sexy shape.
Abortion, touted as a woman’s Constitutional “right to choose”, has become another oppression. For most women getting abortions these days, the “choice” was made by someone ELSE, and the pregnant women themselves WANTED the baby. The woman, most of the time, submits to the barbarity of an abortion because the person she depended on the most, her husband, her father, her grandmother, whoever, demanded that she get an abortion, or if not, she would lose the support of that person. Rather than be abandoned with a baby, she goes ahead with an unwanted abortion.
Sometimes an idea that seems like a good one DOES have unintended consequences. The ideas on contraceptives and abortion that the Supreme Court came up with , with their “emanations and penumbras”(or flatus, as doctors call it), have had DEVASTATING consequences that might have been foreseen if the Supremes had but thought for ten minutes ABOUT possible negative consequences. As it is, these rulings have torn brutally at the fabric of our civilization.